Effective feedback helps you manage & resolve conflict

Given enough time, conflict will arise between people who work together. When it happens, how you communicate with your staffers can determine how well you manage and resolve it. Behaviorists call the process "feedback." Rather than stewing over the conflict, have an honest discussion with your "opponent."

But you can give destructive or constructive feedback. When discussing conflict with someone you're at odds with, try to give effective feedback and avoid the destructive kind. Effective feedback has the following characteristics:

• Immediate vs. demanding impossible changes
• Specific vs. blaming or threatening
• Focused on behavior vs. attacking the personality
• Private feedback vs. doing it publicly
• Factual vs. labeling or exaggerating
• Focused on the future vs. dredging up the past

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Reed Tinsley CPA

This article is written by Reed Tinsley, a Houston, TX-based CPA with over 30 years of experience advising physicians and medical practices across Texas and the United States. Reed holds certifications as a Certified Valuation Analyst (CVA), Certified Healthcare Business Consultant (CHBC), and Certified Financial Planner (CFP), specializing exclusively in the healthcare sector. He is a published author, nationally recognized speaker, and trusted advisor to physicians on accounting & tax, practice management, and financial planning. Schedule a Free Consultation.